My confidence level was up after doing one rejection. It hardly matters, that I got rejected first. But somehow, you feel low. By reciprocating the same you feel better. It is not revenge, the rejection came out of reason, it is just a feel good factor. You feel that your life is in your control.
Anyways, I moved ahead of it and waited for the next meeting. Next meeting took some time. My parents were at different place and I was working in another city. I tried to convince my parents, if I can meet the guy on my own, but they were not ready for it. So we waited when both the families were present in the city. This time meeting was held at one of our known’s house along with families. Again the discussion over attire happened. In the end, I wore the same peach coloured Saree. Interview followed. He was tall, dark and handsome guy with curls. He was soft spoken and impressive. I was being myself. I always overheard my mother’s instructions, who told me specific answers to many questions. It is my advise to everyone who meet prospects in arranged setup. In meetings,, be yourself, because false impressions could be dangerous. The person you are meeting could be your future life partner and showing them the wrong you will not be justified for future. Be the real you. There will be that one, who will fall in love for the way you are.
Series of questions followed. Everything seemed OK to me. But this time rejection came from my family. So you see, you have to be the prospect’ choice plus the family choice, then you cross this hurdle. It is a complicated procedure. I was OK, but my family was’nt convinced. I was confused. I called up my big brother, who himself was not pro for arranged marriage procedure. He told me, “Dear, if you are 100% convinced, only then say yes for marriage. You have to select best for marriage, not OK. The world is not out of boys and you will get the best one for you. This is just a starting.” I completely agreed to his viewpoint. I was not in hurry to get married and I was not truly madly deeply in love with the guy I met. So no point of convincing my parents. Hence I went with my parents wish.
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